Worst Breakup

Describe the worst break-up that happened to you. If you have been lucky to never have a break-up, then describe one that happened to someone close to you. Talk about the feelings, the things said, and the aftermath of the break-up.

Next, describe the best break-up that happened to you or someone you know. Compare the two. What was different.

The worst break-up that I have ever seen was one between my friend and his mistress. First let me say I have been hurt before but this was bad. Also my friend was going through a "grass is greener" time of his life and thought he did not want to be married. When she forced him to decide, he chose to go back to his wife and deal with those consequences. The mistress was hysterical. Like boil your bunny hysterical. Of course I was the one consouling her. It was awful. I am not sure how many times I heard "I love him" and "Why doesn't he love me?" All high-pitched, all repeated a thousand times.

The best break-up was one between me an a high school sweetheart. While I was in Lansing going through the physicals to join the Air Force, she cheated on me with a friend of mine. When I got back they were together. I was upset, but kind of felt it was coming. I tried to date her while my friend dated her and all it did was make my friendship with him strained. Turns out I cared more for that relationship than the one with the girlfriend. Finally, one day I decided I was done. I said goodbye and told my friend that one day we would look back on this and laugh. He later told me that infuriated him. About a year later she was pregnant and they were married. About two years after that they were divorced, he lived in an abusive relationship and now he pays her child support and she lives off of him and adds stress to his life. I look back now and tell him that taking her from me was the best favor he has ever done for me. I am not sure if he looks back on his choices and laughs, but I do.

Well lets see here I truly find this question hard to answer without giving up some of my identity but I suppose Admin want's us to reveal, reveal, reveal!!! The worst break up was when I had dated this person for approx. 9 months and we lived together. This person thought they could control me and that of course just was'nt working so finally I had to call it quits. Well after alot of apologies and I can be a petter person just give me a chance I finally was successful in getting them to leave with alot less than they had came with because this person did'nt have a vehicle to get anywhere, so after about 4 months of being gone I had went to my safe to practice shooting my gun, I came to realize that my gun had been stolen--great, no not at all so I then had to file a police report and purchase another one but, I truly had stressed out about the use of it when it was'nt in my possession, since this person obviously had taken advantage of me.

The best break up was with my best friend, we were together for 5 years and we still talk to this day they are now engaged and seem very satisfied with their life!!

My worst breakup was with this person during high school. I really liked them but my mother didn't approve of them. They couldn't visit me at home so eventually we start sneaking around. We were skipping classes to be together. After awhile this person got tired of sneaking around behind my mothers back so we broke up. I was so upset with my mother because she didn't have a legitiment of not liking the person anyway. I know parents have instincts but my mother was really confused about most of the people I dated. This person turned out to be really successful with a degree in business and they're engaged to someone else. I never really got over the person. After all this time, I am still wondering where our relationship would've gone if my mom hadn't intefered

My best breakup was with a person who I'd dated my senior year of high school. This person was driving me crazy but I didn't know how to end the relationship. After the person went to the air force and I went to college, we were trying to make a long distance relationship work. We could only communicate by letter or once a week on the phone. The person had access to the internet and we both had myspace pages. I would go online and their online indicator would be on but they would never respond to any of my messages. I wasn't even in their top friends list. Anyway I just couldn't take it anymore so I called it quits. I was so happy that I was done with that person

These two breakups were very different because in my worst breakup, I didn't even want things to end. In my best breakup, I was very releaved that I broke things off with the person.

I would have to say the worse breakup in my life was when I had gotten out of the army and moved to my dad's to work on tug boats. I was married and when i got home after being gone one time for 30 days, my exwife and I and my dad and stepmom decided to go out dancing. I kept noticing that my wife didn't want to dance with me to much, but wanted to dance with another guy. I started acting like I was drunk (or so they thought) and low and behold, they started kissing on the dance floor. That is when I went outside with my dad and asked him what was going on. He told me that he had just learned about it. This was three days before Christmas. My exwife came out and I asked her what was going on. Now she knew I wasn't drunk. She told me she had found someone else. I was pissed but managed to hold my composure. I told her I was going home and packing my stuff and that was the end. The next day, with a police officer there to ensure no trouble, I went out and packed what was left. Apparently she had gotten rid of alot of my stuff, wiped our savings and checking accounts out and left me with no winter coat. Two weeks later she called and asked forgiveness and wanted me back. I told her no because I could never trust her again. That I would be thinking about what she was doing while I was out to sea and that it could cause me to have a serious accident and get hurt badly or killed. I have never seen her again.

The nicest breakup was a girlfriend in school. She and I had been dating for a long time. Things sorta got boring between the two of us and we both realized it. We both wanted to explore life and dating with others. We politely quit dating and have been friends even to this day. She is married to a wonderful man and has 3 children. When I am traveling, I at times stop in to say hi to the two of them.

My worst breakup I would have to say is when thier parent's bought them out. Literally. Paid for thier schooling, clothes and a new vehicle just so they wouldn't be with me. Still after that issue with thier parents, they came back to me the next sunday with remorse. Though we never got back together, I still think it bothers them that they made that choice. To make all this matters worse...this happened September 11, 2001 at five in the morning. I said some pretty awful things to people that did not deserve it, though I was crushed and it was all I could do not to just stop living my life and keep myself in a dark room forever.

Best breakup for me was the one that just dissolved and just went to being friends again. they have gone on to marry and divorce and have children and yet we still continue to be friends, through all the fun times that we had. We both were stubborn and yet found common ground onto why we were not going to be together.

Worst breakup was ended beyond my choice and at that time was not something I wanted to happen. The best breakup, there was just too many differences and we seen that, so we agreed that being friends was alot better and that we were still in each other's life. With the worst breakup, though I don't want to get back with them now, I still wish that we could still be friends and that they could get over what had happened and count it as a learning experience.

I would have to say that my worse break up happened about 4 years ago. I dated this guy for 4 years and towards the end I just didnt really have any feelings for him and he was starting to get really clingy...which I cant stand... He was going to school at MSU and lived with me durring the summer. So one day I called him and made him drive down from lansing. I told him that I was ending the relationship. He was so devistated and said that he had no idea....yeah right.... For the next month or so he would send me awful text messages and emails. One night I came home after work and all of my doors were open and all of my lights were on. Safe to say, after that I got the locks changed. We talked for the first time last April and agreed that we both had a lot of growing up to do. In the end, I think that I could have been a lot nicer about it and waited for the right timing.

I don't know if my worst break up is really considered a break up, its more of a change. My friends use to always tell me what i should do and basically boss me around. It was making me feel horrible and useless. ALmsot to the point where i felt i could not do anything without asking them. I told them how i felt. They said they were sorry, and we remain friends. We are just not as close as we were.

My best break up was with my ex boyfriend. We dated on and off from 8th grade until sophmore year. He was/is my best friend and I didn't want the relationship to ruin that cause I know how horrible they can end at times.

My only break up was when I was at the end of my junior year in high school. We had been dating for four and a half years, I thought everything was going good until they cheated on me. I immediately broke up up with them. I pretty much avoided them at school and found a new prom date(a week before prom) and they went with the person they had cheated on me with. It was awful for me. They worked for my parents and we were in contact with eachother alot. It was hard because I tried to act like I wasn't hurt. They called me on and off for about two years even when I was dating someone else. I feel like the break up lasted forever and I was so relieved when they finally stopped calling me.

The worst breakup for me would be when i was 14, I met this guy at a party (he was eighteen). I stayed with him that night, and it was a wrap...we fell in love. My brother told my mom a whole bunch of lies about him and she didnt want us seeing each other. I would skip school to be with him and i would get suspended. I had to sneak around soo much that it just became too much for him I guess and we broke up. It was forever before i got over it, but we both have kids now, and you just have to move on! The best break up was with this guy who was no good..all he did was spend my money, and we would do coke everyday. Im so glad its over because I don't need that kind of person in my life. I have changed and I only do the best for my son.

my worst break was my first break up..I loved the guy so much and i actually thought i was ging to marry him. I was with him for like two years. He always changed his mind about wwhether he wanted to be with me or not. He did more bad to me than good and now i am glad he is gone. You should never have to try so hard to love someone when they dont love you back. you can only put so much into a relationship with out getting anything back. I have only been in one relationship since and we are still together

I think the worst break up I went through was one when I had to work one weekend and my boyfriend went up to his friends college to party and I thought that I could trust him. I was very wrong, he cheated on me of course I should've expected that...and this wasn't the first time but it was the last. When I found out and asked him about it he lied and then promised on our relationship he didn't...I was crushed...mind we were together for 2 years by this time and had been talking (involved) for 4 years. His friend told me to check out his myspace he posted new pics and there my boyfriend was with the other girl. Of course there were alot of things said that werent meant.
The best break up I had was one that we were together for 2 years and we got along good but we just didn't click perfectly. We were better friends and we agreed on that so it was very civil. We are still friends to this day, actually I consider him to be one of my best friends and from my knowledge he feels the same way.
The 2 situations were very different but have taught me to trust people for who they are not who you want themto be.

My worst break up was when I was a freshman during a home football game. I was hanging with my best friend, robert, and we were suppose to meet my boyfriend, chris, at the football game. Well Robert and I were having fun playing football behind the bleechers. We started to wonder where chris was. Not long afterwards, I caught chris and another girl, named kayla, with each others hands in each others butt pockets walking around. I was devastated. Robert tried to confort me. But I was so upset. All I wanted to do is walk up to him and hit him across the face. But I didnt.
The best break up was when I started dating chris again after the football game incident. But this time chris started to treat me better. He bought me a necklace and was being very corny. well one morning Robert told me that he was cheating on me again. Of course, I believed robert. I waited until I had class with him later that day and in the beginning of that class I gave him back the necklace and told him to stay with kayla because obvious he liked her more than he did me. I was hurt but not as much as the football game. I felt relieved becuase I knew that I wasnt going to get hurt by him again. I also said to myself that I was stupid for giving him another chance.

The worst break up I have ever had was more like I got dumped. This is crazy; my ex said she was going to the store and needed some money so I told her my wallet was on the counter take what you need(and I just cashed my payroll check). I guess she needed all of it because thats what she took. She never told me we where breaking up she just went to the store and never came back. Then the next day had the nerve to call me because she was moving in with her cousin and wanted her stuff. I wasn't heart broken I guess I was more relieved because this crazy women was smothering me, always talking about having kids and getting married but I wasn't ready for all that.

The best break up I ever had was much better. I don't exactly remember how the conversation came up but we both wanted to see other people, the only thing we really had in commen was we where both good in bed. Things went so well for us we stayed friends with "benefits". That went on for a couple of years until she decided she really liked her new boyfriend and wanted to take their relationship to the next level. It really didn't bother me; I'm just glad to see her happy. She is now happily married and we still talk once in a while.

The worst break up I have had so far was this guy I was dating who is in the Marines. He had to go to Japan and is gonna be there for 2 yrs. Needless to say the distance killed the relationship..
But honestly.. If my current boyfriend and I were to ever break up I would be devastated. I love him with all my heart and as of right now there is no one else I could ever see myself being with. So if we break up.. it would be without a doubt become the worst break up of my life.